Love quality of the bright love
The New Human Being seems not to take notice of the love of losing very much on surface, but will be found out from them in the way of the love when pursuing, they are less self-confident than that of the person who hold traditional love view to the love, even the love not daring to extravagantly hope to have whole life. Outwardly, the New Human Being seems very practical while pursuing the love, for example ” hold now ” , ” only lie in once having “  Wait, in fact this demonstrates the inanition of a kind of psychology even more. Who as to the thing that those are held no matter you are, I dare to ” jump the quene furiously ” Person,not only not accord with but also be allowed code of ethic of Chinese nation, law.

Then, what kind of quality enough to make us do a job with skill and ease, free to advance or retreat of the modern love love we have on earth?

1.Believe the love, but does not worship the love blindly. It is believed that the real love as long as the heaven and earth endure exists, but expect it is unrealistic that it will surmount everything. The love may vary with time, its extinction might not mean losing all of the life. Know so to the love, can make us not worship the love blindly, it is desperate that just it is difficult to be injure.

2.Can appear to can enter too. Can forget me while putting into, the result should let reason stand out when appears, whether this kind of result is a beginning of the marriage or end of love, could hold the initiative of the love in this way, do not lose in the emotion. So-called ” should go all out go all out, ” .

3.Initiative and rational posture. Wait for the love trusting to chance and strokes of luck, sure to lose a lot of chances by mistake, but grab the love blindly, will injure others and ruin oneself. With the initiative posture, pursue the love with self-confidence, open soul, there will be love, can let love because one’s own pursuit improper ruining.

4. Have ability of love. The ability of the love includes the ability, tolerant ability and ability to bear oneself of the ability, understanding that are paid. Don’t expect lover can share all for us, a lot of anything we need, face alone still; To pay is more beneficially to the love than to ask for, make oneself happier too; Have unexpected results to the love tolerantly, by requiring, criticizing, imploring the purpose to reach, tolerant perhaps Israel is effective.

5.A little psychological elasticity. Enjoy love intimate, accept lover loose can know carefree and leisurely closelying estranged. Treasure while having, lose and turn quickly, needn’t mourn one’s death no end and go over, it is believed that the new love is just in the front.

6.Find out about a little love psychology. Like the state that can’t get, the emotion is extremely easy to intensify, it can in order to strengthen the love atmosphere to utilize this; Make some small obstacles, the fighting will of the persons who will enable the love is higher; The lover meets the setback, need to comfort most; The fresh some changes are the love need forever. Like that, numerous, make good use of, will form the benign encouragement situation each other.

7.There is a little economic base. Though material and love might not be directly proportional to, a little the material base is absolutely the growth of health helpful to love, the love that above the material attractions of the world is very difficult for a long time.

“After all, the love surmounts success or failure. The love is the dream most beautiful in life, can you say you have had a successful dream or failed dream? ” This philosopher week country flat what of Mr., no matter what state our love is, encourage this sentence and comfort all can yet be regarded as the wise move.